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Tuesday, September 21, 2021

Multicultral Ganpati - Modak and Pongal are the same - "prasadam"

My sisters live in a self contained community in Bangalore and it feels like you are in another world. It’s a long drive from airport but then you don’t need anything if you are not missing the city. hey have their own store, restaurants and some day today needs, all the household helpers live within. Its like a city within the city

Last Sunday they had Ganesh festival in the community center.

I saw cultural integration in its full form. 

When we walked in they were playing drums in a very South Indian style. The North Indian woman in me couldn’t associated that sound with Ganesh Festival. Soon the crowd was chanting the mantras we grew up with. A South Indian panditji performing prayers, lots of North Indians singing prayers in their languages, a variety of offerings from all over India, all sort of flowers, young kids running around in their traditional attire. My evening was heavenly.

By the time the prayers got over it started raining. Seeing kids playing in the rain was so much fun. They inspired us to enjoy it too and we sisters decided to walk home in the rain.

I borrowed a cotton Paithani from Mom’s closet. My sisters in linen and Bengal silk cotton .










Sunday, September 19, 2021

To go or not to go - India trip 2021

For me a trip to India has always meant excitement, fun, vacation and meeting family. From booking the tickets to making lists and then shopping and packing and planning has always been fun. I have been living out of India for 25 years now and it was always the same but this time it was totally different.

COVID changed life for everyone, we all got something good and bad out of it. We were in India in Jan 2020 so it was okay for a year or so. I didn’t crave a visit and COVID and work from home gave me more chance to connect with everyone. FaceTime and Zoom became an integral part of our life. I could video chat with my mom everyday.

But after a year and a half COVID fatigue hit everyone and things went downhill. This  fall many things changed and we were impacted by it too. My parents decided to go to our home town for some time and my mom didn’t do very well health wise. During that time I just got a thought and I decided to keep my fears aside and decided to go see her.

This trip was different, not many plans are made, not many lists were exchanged, I didn’t talk much about my India trip and shopping was mostly from Costco and Amazon. 

Everything had some kind of dullness but slowly it warmed up. I could overcome my anxiety and decided to enjoy my time with family. Some of the friends who have been to India during this time were a big help and very supportive. One of the doctor friend gave me hospital masks with instructions. 


Finally the day came, it was an  11 PM flight so I had the whole day. 

After work two friends came and it was a much needed break. The tea together was comforting and and very relaxing. One of them made yogurt rice for my dinner at the airport. If you are planning to travel you must do this. Take food from home and eat before the flight so you are not rushing to eat when everyone is eating on the plane. You can eat after everyone is done and masked. Also get the surgical masks, your glassed won’t fog as much.

With no kids at home the house was much cleaner and calmer . The fridge didn’t have much to clean.

We left home to pick up Ajey, spent some time there before we headed out to the airport which was very close.

When I walked in I was shocked to see no lines . I was 3 hours early for the flight but still had never seen this airport so quiet . My checking in was a breeze. My home weighing scale was perfect so there wasn’t any issue with the suitcases. They were just right 50.5 and 51 lbs :) I got out of the airport with the boys. Ashish got the parking right outside the entrance , so unusual. We could see how COVID has changed everything for travelers . No one in their right mind would travel right now a friend had said. Well I was trying to keep my mind in the right place.  The weather was so perfect which I didn’t notice till then. I am glad I went out with them.

Security was totally empty too, I have traveled so many times to India but I had never seen anything like this. Empty airport. Well I am not complaining, having the whole area to myself was helpful. I could make phone calls while walking and not worrying about social distancing. The flight was easy and smooth and felt very safe.

Dubai Airport was empty, safe and comforting. The break was short and Duty free shops are open.

Another post about the Bangalore airport Saga. is Here 






My sisters came to pick me up at the airport, waited patiently when it took more than 2 hours to come out.

and it was all worth it 


Travel Saga - If you are flying from Boston to India Via Dubai - India 2021

Note - this is my experience as of Sept 15th, 2021, things can change, please go through CDC guidelines and Indian Governments's requirements 

I flew on Wednesday late night  (9/15) night from Boston. The Logan airport was so empty, the reality of new travel. My fight was @ 11 PM so that too might be the reason. 

I was there by 8.10 PM, At the check they checked Visa,  PCR test, and Self declaration form on Air Suvidha (Take a print out of both) 

That can happen for international travel if you are early but the biggest surprise of all was very smooth security check. If you have flown through Boston before it always has been busy.

After security, there wasn’t anything going on, I could go to the gate. The restaurant were mostly closed.Keep the print out handy, they can ask again at the gate.


The Emirates is flying on its limited capacity with mask mandate. It was Wednesday night too. They are trying to keep two seats between two passanger, I got the whole 3 seat row to my self and could sleep on my longer stretch of the travel, which I am grateful for. The food was warm and served as usual, not boxed. I ate at the airport before flying ( home cooked) so I ate after everyone ate and wore their mask again

Dubai Airport - again was quiet, very empty, the security check was easier. Again checked the PCR test and Self declaration form ( Air Suvidha). All the Duty Free shops are open. It was a short stop over.

The flight from Dubai from Bangalore was busier than the previous but still again lot emptier than usual.

I was talking to the stewardess and they confirmed that flights are flying with reduced capacity.

I got the window seat and the other person was on the aisle. An empty seat in between but again it was his family of 4 sat in the middle row that might be the reason, the plane was pretty empty.


Real fun began at the Bengaluru Airport, it was easy to get out of the plane because of no crowd but there are few procedures in place.

The first is COVID test ( a very long line, no social distancing but everyone wearing mask), end of the line they gave me a registration form , test is mouth swab and nasal swab. Take a pic of that form because they will take it back. After the test they ask for self declaration form, then another line to pay 800 Rs for test ( I used my card) then final stop was temperature check. I just felt this whole process was in place for a reason, just time consuming and tiring. After all that the immigration was super easy because not much line there. But after immigration there was a long time for cabin baggage check. It was really slow and I wasn’t sure if they were even paying attention. 2 international flight ( at least) and only one scanner was working. By the time I got out my check in bags were already out from the belt that was very helpful and no-one stopped me at customs. It took me close to two hours to get out of the airport. 

I got the email after few hours that test was negative ( I think they have the email from Air Suvidha) and my sister got a test result as text ( I gave her number as India contact) little later.

f you must fly
Fly weekday
Printout of PCR test and Self Declaration form ( Air Suvidha)
Check with the airline about their specific requirements
Keep hour and half in hand in Bengaluru after landing.
Keep your own water bottle and get some water from the plane

Empty lines @ Emirates counter
and Quatar Airways was a different story all together. I guess I was too early :)


B777  - A wonderful staff
@Dubai Airport
Dubai Airport 
On my way to Bangalore from Dubai 

welcome to India :) - Worth every trouble.

The line for scanner, heard Indian authorities are struggling with drugs coming in. also they are extremely tired. we all worked from home but these people didn't have that luxury so please be kind to the staff. They are doing whatever they can to make our life easy but we cannot comprehend what they go through.



Monday, September 13, 2021

How far we have come !!! Cultural Festival in Franklin Sept 2021 - A journey of 18 yrs

We moved to this town in 2003, Indians or browns were a rarity in this area. We needed a train station for commute (like most desi do to work in the city) plus this fit our budget. We had no idea what the future held for us . We were 4 years young in this country and not much help was available on the internet, nor did we have any friends who were already homeowners.

Our realtor (I call her my American mom) was our go to person for everything (I still go to her for many things)
She assured us that the schools were wonderful in this town. We didn’t talk/consider diversity or being all alone in this very white town because we didnt know that it was something to consider
Soon I made a few of my close friends move here and we made this town our own.
Before they all moved in I was one of the very few non white faces in the town. I met some amazing people and did bring some “desiness” with me. Volunteered in the school and in the library and slowly people got used to having some diversity around. Soon a lot more Indian families moved in and in 18 years our town has turned more diverse.
Yesterday Franklin hosted a cultural festival and our own desi crowd performed. For the first time our town saw some amazing music, dances and colorful Sarees. Everyone was excited and in awe.
My saree is a reminder of history in making, A town celebrating a different culture with curiosity. 17-18 yrs ago I brought Indian ladies together and made a yahoo group, soon we upgraded to WhatsApp like everyone else. We all “seasoned” ladies (old residents doesn’t sound good) and many newer additions got together to watch and enjoy the celebration and remembered how far we have come.
A very fresh addition introduced herself and thanked me for creating the group and adding her to that. She was happy that our group existed.
The 100 saree is a reminder - how important it is embrace your culture and celebrate it.
This Jamdani saree made a round in Boston and came back to me after almost 2 yrs. So many Saree Sakhies wore it, Before It makes another round I wanted to say hello.
My darling friend in Calcutta, friend from Middle school went shopping for me and got some of the most beautiful sarees.










Wednesday, September 1, 2021

The magic of Saree - An evening with saree and poetry.

 I grew up in a household with books and was always encouraged to read. Got married, moved continents and then life happened ie kids, home and work and everything else. Music came back in life so did reading and literature.

Became part of Hindi Manch here in Boston and soon after became integral part of its Sahitya Vibhag. Helped organized many goshthi’s and Sahitya Sammelan. Then Covid happened and everything just stopped.

Finally last month we started thinking of claiming our life back little bit. As a group we wanted to reinforce positivity and be careful at the same time. So we agreed on hosting an outdoor, limited seating event. 

As a team we always encouraged new people to share their talent. I decided to nudge some of the Saree Sakhies from our Boston group and I am so glad I did. I was the cohost of the program.It became a “Saree Manch” event as one of the Saree Sakhi accidentally called.  That term  is stuck with all of us forever. The audience got to hear some poetry and see some very stylish Saree Sakhies. For me it was an amazing day as I could celebrate and combine two of my passion - Poetry and Sarees.








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Sunday, July 18, 2021

When my own words abandon me , poetry comes to rescue

दर्द से मेरा दामन भर दे या अल्लाह
फिर चाहे दीवाना कर दे या अल्लाह

मैनें तुझसे चाँद सितारे कब माँगे
रौशन दिल, बेदार नज़र दे या अल्लाह

सूरज सी इक चीज़ तो हम सब देख चुके
सचमुच की अब कोई सहर दे या अल्लाह

या धरती के ज़ख़्मों पर मरहम रख दे
या मेरा दिल पत्थर कर दे या अल्लाह

-क़तील शिफ़ाई

A summer evening, music, beautiful weather, food and friends who share the same passion. It was everything one can ask for. I took out this beautiful light silk. 


Jagjit Singh’s magic

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5jVwdwp0uI
an Uppada for a musical get togther on a cool evening .